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Monday, July 31, 2006

In life, growing up is a learning phrase… Thru’ this learning process, ppl could either gain something or lose something or even both occur at the same time. The phrase of growing up will enable you to look things from different point of views and handle things differently. Or shud I sae that that person would handle things more maturely. Hmm…Thru’ tis learning process of growing up, ppl will come across problems with the friends, family and relationship which in tis case means stead. Some ppl will excel thru’ tis problems and some will will sink and in the end get themselves drowned.

Toking abt the friends problems. Wad are some kind of problems that will occur in friendship?? Hmm…Basically, it will be something like misunderstandings, quarrels, cold wars and etc. Thru’ tis problems, ppl will get to noe who are their true friends and who are not. Thru’ tis problems, ppl will be able to find their close friends and noe them even better. A true and close friends will never make use of euu…They wun find euu whenever they need euu only and if they dun need euu they will juz dump euu one side…Tis type are not close and true friends. Or shud I sae they not even worth to be called friends…They juz wan to make use of euu nia…Close and true friends will always be there for euu. When euu in need, a phone call to them will get them to appear infront of euu immediately. Friends accept who euu are and not try to change euu to be their ideal friends. True friends will try their best to help euu when euu are in needed… They defend euu as well. Thru’ tis process, ppl is able to benefit by having close friends and learn hwo to see ppl clearly. But they will sink if they get the wrong friends and get betrayed by them and the continue to trust them and etc.

The nxt problem that ppl will encounter during the learning process of growing up is family problems. Family problem differ from everyone. Everyone has family problems but in everyone’s case, it is different. At the teenager age of abt 17 and below, euu will tend to seek more attention from the family and euu always tend to things tat euu are rite and the rest is always wrong. Euu might even run away from home. Euu will think that ur family members dun understand euu at all even thou’ they haf went thru’ the phrase themselves. Seriously at tis age, euu will juz blame everyone for wadever euu doing. And euu will nv blame urself…But when euu grow older, euu will start to think. Family will get to be more and more impt. Althou’ euu will still continue to seek attention from ur family members, but this time euu wun be using stupid ways to get attention from them. Euu will noe how to think from the point of view of other ppl and not only urself. Euu noe how to put urself in other ppl shoe. And personally, I feel that it is the most impt thing that euu haf learn from tis learning process of growing. “Putting Yourself In Other People Shoe”…From here, euu oso will care for how other ppl might feel if euu do this or do that. If by the age of 20 and euu still dun, den I think tats consider as selfish bah.. Everyone tend to be selfish but being selfish euu muz noe ur limit as well. Being over selfish will only get ppl to dislike euu and dun wan to make friend with euu. However, if euu always think of others first and sacrifice urself over and over again. Its not a gud thingy as well as ppl will take advantage of euu. Hence, euu got to noe ur own range of being selfish. As I sae, everyone has a devil by the name of selfish in it. But juz depend on how much euu actually show them out.

Last but not least, the last problem in learning process of growing up is relationship problem. This is where most ppl get drowned in. Thru’ the process of growing up, euu will fall in love…Love can be sweet, but once it turn bitter, it will get real bitter. Thru’ tis learning process, ppl might haf a lot of relationship…Breaking up , patching back, finding new one…Thru’ this steps eventually ppl tend to find their most suitable partner. Breaking up is the worst thingy in a relationship. But sometime, there isn’t any choice but euu juz got to break up. Breaking up will cause that person to be very sad but it oso let ppl noe who care for them the most and who dun…And they will learn form their mistake and wun do it again in the n relationship. Bt breaking up is the process that kill many ppl. Some might not be able to pull themselves together after every breakup and hence they will try to kill themselves or hurt themselves in any ways that they can think of. However, it differs from many ppl. Some ppl can recover one day after the breakup but some take mths to recover. But tis relationship problem shud be the one that leaves the most memories in the learning process of growing up.

The learning process of growing up might be difficult but when euu eventually go thru’ it, euu will be able to benefits a lot from it. This process might haf lots of problem to it but eventually there shud be many sweet and happy memories that will be left in my brain forever. A memory that wun be erased. Wad I think is that everyone shud enjoy the phrase of growing up and not giving it up. Present a true and honest self and dun present a fake self to ppl ard euu. This will allow euu to haf more true friends instead of fake friends. Open urself to other ppl, tis will enable euu to be more happy as euu dun haf to keep things from ppl and might it so difficult to cope. At different age, the priority in ur heart might changes as well…For example, ur priority now might be ur friends but maybe nxt yr it will bcome ur family. The phrase of growing up is tough but when euu persevere and go thru’ it, euu will succeed in making euu a better person if euu haf the right mindset.

confessed @ 10:57 AM